There are many ways to get an ex boyfriend back, but the problem is, after a breakup and your emotions are running at their peak, you listen to your heart instead of your head and things you ordinarily would not do. Your first and only thought is getting your ex back. That is all that matters to you right now. So you run after him crying and pleading for him to love you again. This will never work. If you want to lose your man forever keep in his face with pleas threats or trying to make him feel sorry for you. This will not get an ex back. It will only drive him to run and hide from you.
The best thing you can do right after a breakup is disappear from his life completely. No contact at all. Let him have time to think. He cannot think or begin to wonder if the breakup was a mistake if you are constantly in his face reminding him of why he broke up with you. The best thing is for you to find something to occupy your mind other than you ex. A good start would be to get back with the friends and relatives you may have been neglected. You need to be around people that love you right now. They will welcome you with open arms and give you the comfort and love you need.
During this time away from him you should try to think of the main cause for the breakup. No doubt there were a lot of little annoyances, but do not dwell on these because you are after the biggest reason or reasons for the split. Once you have isolated these reasons you will need to think of how you can take some sensible measures to fix them. If they are just left to hang in the air and be repeated you can never achieve the happy relationship you seek.
During this time away from him your ex has had time to consider some things also. He will come to see how much he misses you and needs you in his life. At this same time, you will have come up with the main causes of the breakup and a way to keep them from ever happening again. With your ex beginning to miss you, and you having found a way to fix your relationship problems, this is the time to formulate a plan to get your ex boyfriend back and make him love you again.
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