Whether your ideal woman hangs out at the bar six nights a week and really knows how to party, or she's shy, retiring and loves bookstores more than the spa, you have to get her attention! Meeting women and getting their attention in a favorable way is very difficult for some men, but check out some of the love tips to attract women listed below. Don't forget that most women are out there looking too, and all you have to do is find each other.
1.Be forward, but not aggressive.
Buying a woman a drink or offering her a suggestion on the books she is trying to decide between is great; believing that it entitles you to something is most definitely not! If you are in a position to do something nice, do it, but don't expect anything in return. This establishes you as a gentleman, and no matter what the guidebooks tell you, that's exactly what most women are looking for.
2.Listen when she talks
Nothing is more flattering that someone who wants to listen. Don't be disingenuous about it, that is, don't fake an interest when something is boring you to tears. This is a lot more obvious than you might think it is, and a woman who realizes that you are only pretending to be interested will be a lot less predisposed to like you or enjoy your company. Instead, make it a point to find something interesting about what she says. Ask questions and before you know it, you might have a new hobby as well as a new girlfriend.
3.Don't treat her friends badly
Typically, her friends will have her best interests in mind, but sometimes they won't. One of the worst mistakes that a guy can make with a girl is by insulting or ignoring her friends, so make sure that you are at least polite. It can be a bit of a fine line sometimes; no girl wants the guy who was flirting with her to get overly chummy with her friends right away, but you don't want to blow them off, either. Just try to find a natural balance.
4.Be a gentleman
No matter what her views are, act in a way that is honorable to you. If you are the type to open doors and buy the meal, go ahead with that unless she declines, in which case, be gracious. Don't turn it into a big thing and be accepting of her views. Remember that if she is not similarly polite and gracious to you that you probably shouldn't be with her.
5.Be honest
It sounds like a bit of a no brainer, but if you really listen to yourself, you might be surprised at how often you tell her what you think she wants to hear. This counts, of course for the big stuff (whether you really want kids or if you're ready to be in a serious relationship) but it counts for the little stuff, as well. Even if she says something sort of outrageous like she would never be into a guy who doesn't know how to surf, don't tell her that you are a surfer to stay in the running; just say you never have but would be willing to learn.
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